Thursday, October 16, 2008

Cruise Blog #1

I experienced the sunrise Monday morning the way that 70% of the world, geographically speaking, experiences it everyday – on the ocean. Debi and I are on a cruise to celebrate our 30th anniversary and the edge of the sun was just appearing on the eastern horizon at 7:49 as I came up on deck.

From horizon to horizon and for 360 degrees, there was not a speck of land or even another ship to be seen. I asked one of the ship’s officers how far we could see on a day like Monday with unlimited visibility and he told me that edge of the world was about 25 nautical miles away (that’s just shy of 29 statute miles for you landlubbers). As I turned slowly in a circle, I was looking out on almost 2,600 square miles of water that was devoid of human civilization!

Although 3500 people share the Pride with me (the Pride is the name of the ship we are on), I was pretty much alone on the uppermost deck of the ship at that moment. My first thought was that we were a little island of life in a vast and threatening ocean. That was true since I was thinking only of Homo sapiens. A few moments later my perception changed as I thought about life more broadly – we were an island of life in a sea that teems with life of unimaginable fecundity.

Regardless of how I defined life at that moment, it turned out that my life on Monday was vastly different than “normal”. My day was filled with things I find it difficult to incorporate in my everyday life. A healthy breakfast was followed by time to read and think and dream and connect with God. Then came a workout in the gym at the bow of the ship and an unusual two mile run with exactly half of it into a 20-knot wind and the other half of it with that same wind at my back thanks to the sailing ship. Then there was more reading under a completely cloudless sky. I even did some work. Later, I watched the last rim of the sun’s disk disappear into the ocean at 7:18 pm while enjoying a cigar and a glass of bourbon. Interspersed with it all were conversations with Debi about significant matters.

And I was struck also by the things that were absent from my life on Monday. No news. No talk radio and NPR to get myself exposed to both sides of the current political debates. No glancing around the house and stewing about the projects that are left unfinished.

Overall, Monday was a day of less stress and less anxiety combined with more contentment and more connection with people and more involvement with things that really matter. The experience left me wondering if I could turn Monday’s oddity into an everyday reality.

6 comments:

Wayne said...

Hey Mike,

It sounds like your Monday was an amazing Sunday (Sabbath)! I like your idea for how all Mondays could be that. I will pray your Friday is that as well. Enjoy Cabo. The snorkeling there is wonderful.

Happy 30th Anniversary!

Wayne

mentorman said...

...indeed, happy anniversary to you and Deb

...right now, I'm also staring at the Pacific in Carslbad, CA

...but here for LDG board meetings

...will be good to catch up when we are both at home

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to you both! It is hard to believe it has been that long. I wish I could say that I remember that day like it was yesterday, but that would be stretching it a bit. The mind starts to go after age 40!

Anyway, glad you're having a great trip! Thank you for your thoughts about that special Monday.

Cris said...

Happy Anniverary, wow, 30 years, Debi can't even be that old! I noticed Cabo - maybe you could make a dive or 2, with maybe 25 nautical feet of visibility. But, regardless, sounds like a taste of heaven at least some well earned peace. And as usual I appreciate your insights and articulate commentary... Cris

Anonymous said...

Dear Mike and Debi, CONGRATULATIONS and have a wonderful time sailing away in the ocean's fresh and cool air. May each day of the trip be lengthened and blessed because I suspect that upon your return to Denver, days will seem too short and too full of other kinds of blessings!
Helene

Unknown said...

Mike, Nice words -- the imagery you use describing the sunrise and the ocean is very nice. The description of a sense of solitude and separation from every-day life is well done, too. Denise and I have our thirtieth anniversary coming up next year and Denise has always resisted a cruise, but you make it sound irresistible. Have wonderful trip.--Doug Brown